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Making my way downtown is how I have always imagined my life would be; being able to withstand certain demands from the outside world and at the same time enslaving thy self towards the perfection that I have always aimed for. However, as I age and mature, I realize that I am already perfect and complete. Yes, I have to believe such in order to be who I want to be. In other words, boosting the self in ways that would help me achieve my goals and objectives in life and be satisfied at the same time is my main priority.

Neuro Linguistic Programming, hereinafter referred to as NLP, serves as the building blocks in enabling the self towards the satisfaction that it years for. Yes, year as it has been one of life’s many impending and continuous goals that each aims to accomplish. More so, to be satisfied both innately and externally allows the self to learn how to expect the unexpected and appreciate even the minutest detail in life.

I have to learn how to be genuine and true. I need to discover my strengths and weaknesses in relation to my aim to be satisfied. I have to act in accordance to how I want my life to be and  thus learn to grope on my abilities and exhaust them to their fullest potentials. Through such, I would be able to live the life that I have always craved for and more so, be who I aim to be.

My goals and objectives in life are my light at the end of the tunnel. They pull me towards them and thus I have to make sure that I do – whatever the cost may be. I have to understand the intensity of my being and allow it to flourish alongside my own development. In other words, I must have a mutual appreciation and relationship with my whole self to be able to do what I must before all is taken away from me.

The way I see it, I have to take one-step at a time and learn to be in control. I must carry out a tune and belt when needed and refrain from overusing my vocal chords. Just like in life, be persuasive to an extent and know your limits but do not be defined by them. Instead, use your being limited to your advantage and see how you are able to transform yourself in being the ideal you –this time, your real life ideal you.

NLP seeks to empower the self. NLP wants the self to actualize its potentials and utilize them to his advantage. It wants to have a self that is pleasingly empowered from the inside and externally prepared to withstand whatever life has to offer. In short, to be ready of the many trials and challenges that one is to face in his lifetime.

Being your true you is not difficult, despite what others might say, it is actually easy and could be achieved by all. We make life difficult and nothings else. Think about it.


 
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Awareness begets acceptance and vice versa. Although coupled with a number of questions, still, at the end of the day, one accepts. Indeed, a tedious cycle to begin with but such implies how the human being is able to think and live accordingly. To connote accordingly here implies a subjective one that deals with how an individual sees to it that he is able to satisfy his goals and objectives in life.

I know I am not perfect nor is my life complete but the mere fact that I am aware of my limitations, I am able to accept such fact with all that there is. I may be full of questions and blinded conclusions but still I am able to accept who I really am. I admit, everybody wants to be perfect but has it ever occurred to you that your imperfection is what makes you perfect? That your incompleteness is what makes you complete? Thus, your limitation is what makes you whole.

 Although we purposely intend to be a somebody amidst the many nobodies out there, we forget that, since the beginning, we are already a somebody. We may not be as famous as those publicly owned celebrities or politicians who makes headlines but in our own right, we are a somebody. Well, to begin with, we are as complete as they are. The only difference is that we keep our greatness to a minimum and from the prying eyes of the public. As much as we are public individuals, we too are private as far as living the life that we have always wanted is concerned.

It is of no contest that part of us aims to be like them, living a luxurious life like royalties do. Admittedly, we become jealous of their status and hope that it was us on their positions. We become fanatically caught up with them that we tend to mold our lives according to how they are living theirs. More so, we want to be as lucky as they are that we do everything, in our powers, to be like them. However, we would never be like them or anybody else. We have our own identity and individuality that is primarily unique and distinct from everybody else. Our goals and objectives differentiate us from that of the rest. That we have different needs and wants that separates us from them.

Indeed, it is easier to be caught up in our own utopia where everything is perfect but it is best to be living the life that we have and put our perfection into good use. We just need to learn to use them and make use of them. That is where Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Time Line Therapy® (TLT) and NLP Hypnosis (Hypnosis) comes is. Such aim for the betterment of the whole self thus it seeks to empower the innate self in lieu of the external self. In short, NLP, TLT and Hypnosis seeks to help the development of the holistic self to be aware and accepting of his own perfection.


 
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One day, everything is going to be fine. I know it is a bit of a cliché but that is the truth. It speaks of the fact that change is but the only constant thing in this world thus there remains nothing permanent and certain in this world. Even the certainty of the uncertain is not certain.

The constant movement enables us to experience more than what we have bargained for. We are able to be acquainted with the many facets of life –both the positive and negative sides that is. More so, we are taught to explore even beyond what we are capable of as we partake in a journey that is as unpredictable as a girl’s cycle. In short, the intensity of life could not be grasped and fathomed by the human mind itself; it takes more than free will to understand what life really is.

 Just like life, love is as unpredictable as the weather; it is not easily understood as it could not be defined. The very definition of love rests upon our own understanding of it. We experience love thus we are able to explain it in our subjective parlance. That explains the gigantic and immeasurable meanings as to what love is.

They say experience is but the best teacher thus whenever we fall in love we are blinded by the love that we feel towards another. More so, we detach from the growing demand of the public thus making us lost of the reality that we are in. When in love and asked what is the meaning of love, we cannot outright express our thoughts as the fleeting feeling lingers in us. However, with tragedy comes the rationale that we posses. Yes, we become so in touch with the world that we are able to appreciate love and the experience we just had. In short, the moment we feel an intense shifting in our feelings, we are fast in deriving the meaning of love. We conclude on what we feel thus we have different notions of love per se.

Although it is but normal, one must be in touch with his innate self before he is to come up with a conclusion on a one-liner premise about love. Do not get me wrong, I am not saying that it is unacceptable but it should not be the end all and be all of love. The conclusion simply adheres to the raw sensory data gathered from the external world, processed and interpreted by the mind and expressed by the self; there is more to it than what meets the eye.

Study Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and learn to control your urges to conclude on the vastness  of the many facets of life.


 
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They say always keep a positive outlook in life. Always be inspired and motivated in order to be happy. However, do we still need to acquire something to be happy or are we already happy on our own?

Understanding the composition of the way we live our life is considered futile and irrelevant to begin with. It’s futile and irrelevant as we need not look outside the self to be happy. Although considered limited, we have the capacity to implement happiness on our own. Basically, we have it in our hands – the key to our happiness that is.

In the beginning, we seek to be empowered from the outside to the inside. A flow of energy that we think could help us be motivated and inspired at the same time. We search high and low and most often than not, we end up frustrated as we are able to find temporary happiness and not the real and genuine one. Through the various trial and errors stumbled upon, we begin to understand and rationalize on the idea that what we are yearning for is already upon us.

The self is composed of the innate and external self. The latter is basically composed of the outside world and other individuals aside from himself while the former connotes those that he already posses since birth but does not necessarily imply of hereditary qualities. Given that, we can conclude that, with both our external and innate selves, we are able to produce a certain degree and kind of happiness that is only available for us. In other words, we are bursting and overflowing with certain qualities that could help us be motivated and inspired at the same time thus no need to search for it outside.

Although in life, we need some form of temporary happiness to help us get by, still we revert back to the self in relation to the need to be innately empowered and happy at the same time.  The innate self is most powerful as it can salvage a drowning self; it serves as the platform for being who we are and living the life that we have always wanted.  The ability of the innate self allows the whole self to propel towards the path that which leads him to the achievement of his goals and objectives in life. In other words, it is the innate self that encourages the self to move and never get stuck in the moment.

Thus, it is duly important that the innate self, together with the external self, be appropriately empowered in relation to its quest for a better, fuller and richer life ahead. One key player in this is the discovery of Neuro Linguistic Programming, NLP for brevity, in the self. Learn NLP and be NLP equipped before it is too late.

                                            Now the question is, are you innately empowered?   


 
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Life is what we make of it. It is not dependent upon anybody’s definition nor is it reliant upon a particular one. It flows like the water in the ocean thus it is unstoppable. In short, life’s very definition relies on one’s ability to live his life.

Although meanings and definitions on what life is has been said and been used by many other individuals, it is still not sufficient to encapsulate what life really is. To attempt proves of one’s ability to conquer the many slopes of life and never giving up enables him to sway from the many dictates of the society to stop. Yes, there are those who would applaud you for the attempt but, on the contrary, there are those who would stop you from furthering your quest. They say it’s jealousy, and I think so, too, but come to think of it, it is more than jealousy even.

Of what that attitude is would remain a mystery. Feelings and emotions are involved thus it is difficult to meddle in, intellectually that is. When emotions are involved, the intellect tends to shut down and vice versa. However, that should not be the case. That should never be the case.

Neuro Linguistic Programming, NLP for brevity, allows both the intellect and emotions to work together. Utopia, as it may seem, but with NLP it is possible. Triggering the unity between the neurological and linguistic abilities of the individual through specifically designed trainings and seminars paves the way for the individual to experience bliss in the self.

Yes, a blissful yet painstaking life is what NLP is all about. Realization of the life you have and of the possible one that you will have are meddled in thus emotions and feelings from the past would be rekindled. It is then but inevitable that the past would be excavated thus it might disrupt the way you are already living your life.

NLP works backward then forward. It seeks to help the empowerment of the self through a reflection of the past and at the same time learning how to let it go. Yes, NLP seeks to rebuild your own self through your own initiative. You become aware of your past, present and future altogether thus making it easier for you to be attentive of your life in general.

Indeed, you are the only one who could define what life is. Though universally accepted to exist, life that is, still its very definition lies on our own ability to decipher and fathom it. I make my own life thus I can answer what life is.


 
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Being able to withstand the demands of the outside world exemplifies one’s confidence. To be confident enough to address the many impending trials and challenges imposed by the world allows the self to be strong. Strong here connotes the intensity of being able to surpass and overcome each ordeal, though maybe not with excellence, but with poise.

Stepping out of the box does not necessarily imply going beyond the borders. It merely states to allow the self to experience other than the usual. To say the least, it speaks of embracing the presence of change and making the most out of it.  

Human as we are, we are expected to play life by the neck. We have the audacity to make the journey and back with confidence. Though again, not one with flying colors, but to surpass the many circumstances that comes along the way. I, for one, am not shy to give my admittance to failure. For me, mistakes are but my lessons and successes are but my guidelines. Indeed, to be mistaken or encounter uneventful hardships is but inevitable, the question really is, can I surpass it? It is not the end all and be all that matters but our ability to conquer such ordeal; the steps undertaken to surpass such is what really matters.  

Getting yourself learned of a particular method of helping and alleviating the self from the pain brought about by mistakes has been one of our past times. To say the least, we divulge into the idea of being able to help the self be the self that we have always yearned for. We like to discover and re-discover our innate self thus allowing us to take life with sturdiness. Indeed, we clamor for anything that, we think, could help us be successful and be an individual all at once.

Neuro Linguistic Programming, hereinafter referred to as NLP, is one powerful method to adhere to. It seeks to help the self be innately empowered and more so keep abreast with the external world. More so, NLP deals with the development of both an individual’s intellectual and emotional ability to live the life that he has always wanted. In other words, NLP aims to help the individual build a self that could withstand the many demands of both his innate and external self.

To step outside the box is what NLP is all about. It teaches the self to let go and move beyond his comfort zone. Thus, do not be afraid to take a step further than your normal. Instead of fear, be excited to take a new ordeal.  


 
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Why does it have to rain on those who less deserve it? At times, I do not see the rationale behind such occurrence. I know, life is definitely not all paved and polished, but I also am in a question frenzy as to how the bumps are placed and distributed all throughout the journey. Is it evenly done or randomly placed?

The uncertainty of life is at times associated with fate or destiny. The occurrence of events and happening of circumstances, as they say, is explained only by fate and never fathomable by the human brain. Even so, it is said that our neurological capacity to process sensory data from the outside world is limited thus disallowing us to thoroughly understand the rationale behind every occurrence.

Although we aim not to dissect every single one of them, humans as we are, we like to avail of the opportunity to comprehend the reason behind it. We like to ponder on thoughts and ideals. In addition, we like the idea of being able to answer question and predisposed notions from others rather than ourselves. In short, we like to keep abreast with the many demands imposed by the society as to our ability to surpass such an ordeal and come out victorious in the end.

I see it as a form of bragging. Do not get me wrong but being able to surpass every tribulation we encounter spells out achievement under our belt. We like to expose our lives so as to be the talk of the town. We deny the attention but deep down we like it. As they say, “Good or bad publicity is still publicity.”

Do not get me wrong, I know others would like to keep their businesses private as much as possible but there are those who crave for attention despite the circumstances they are experiencing. They use such to gain an edge over and above others and be popular.

Yes, we all want attention. We like to be in the center and experience prolonged spotlight attention. We yearn for recognition and acknowledgement – even if it means putting our lives on the line. However, life is too precious to be wasted. Though is it too precious to be kept hidden from the world. There should be balance. And Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP for brevity) is one way to have balance in life.

Like Time Line Therapy® (TLT) and NLP Hypnosis, NLP ensures that the innate self is duly empowered so as to be at par with his goals and objectives in life. Here, NLP allows the self to see beyond his horizon and eventually experience the beyond. In short, NLP supports internal growth and development without having to neglect external betterment. Indeed, NLP aims to help build a strong self – one that can withstand the rain, thunder and typhoon all together. Though it would take time and effort, with the help of NLP, one would be able to realize the importance of shielding the self from the prying eyes of the public and learning how to keep things privately. In short, it is like starting a new life with the help of NLP.



 
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Falling in love has been undeniably exciting for all of us. To deny of such state is like denying the self of the freedom that it so warrants. More so, to say one has never been in the love bandwagon is like detaching your entire self from the world and of others as well. Indeed, falling in love has been one life spice that invites growth and development to settle in with the self.

To find the one that perfectly fits the gap in your hands is but one tedious quest to undertake. Numerous trails must be surpassed and errors must be corrected along the way. Investment of time and effort might be resorted in but when you are able to experience, realize and feel love through rose colored glasses, then it certainly feels like a home run.

Being able to share part of your own self to another and being loved in return implies a perfectly complete self. Indeed, there is such a thing. In the first place, one is already perfectly complete. Coupled with experience and time, one becomes able to perform at his fullest potential thus enabling him to share part of himself to another. In the process, he becomes individually stable and could not be withered. In other words, because of his confidence in himself, he is able to bear certain uncertainties thus allowing him to grow despite all that love brings in his life.

Indeed, love is not all rainbows and balloons; it too has its fair share of pain and tears. It can really make or break an individual. Thus, one needs to be ready holistically to be able to withstand anything that might come his way.

The way love instills its presence in the self works like that of Neuro Linguistic Programming (hereinafter referred to as NLP). NLP, as a self-improvement tool, persuades the self to see beyond the normal and experience extravagance all at once. It speaks of allowing the self to be at par with what he has envisioned his self to be and at the same time live the life that he has always wanted. In other words, NLP helps the individual highlight his strengths and improve his weaknesses in lieu of the demands of life and love. To do such requires a self that is innately empowered and enriched.

To attain growth of the self takes more than will power and discipline. It seeks to underscore the presence of control thus enabling him to control his innermost self in relation to his external one. More so, NLP allows the self to be neurologically active and linguistically trained to favorably exhibit his true self amidst the many anybody in the world. To be a somebody allows him to come across his true find and be with his love forever. Yes, I am a hopeless romantic who believes in happy ever after and I also believe in the usefulness of NLP in the self.

Indeed, two heads are better than one. With innate greatness and NLP working together, one would surely be able to see beyond the usual and find the one that perfectly fits in his hand.


 
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Learning to accept your self is but one important aspect of life. Attempts to explain it could be availed in different forms of media. However, if subjectively the self does not believe in its own capability then all other modes of explanation would be rendered moot and academic.

They say prescribed is an understatement. Indeed, it is. As much as we would like to keep abreast with the changing times, we are still, up to a certain extent, adamant as to the acceptance of change in our lives. To say the least, we do feel a little bit jealous of others and how they are able to live their lives yet still we sulk and let the seconds pass by without doing anything. To let time take its toll in you simply connotes an understanding that the self is not ready to recognize the value of change altogether.

Those who rely on jealousy to motivate them could despair from the dismay that jealousy brings forth in his life but to let jealousy take control of your life is a different thing. Although it could not be stopped nor could it be completely eradicated, change is one quintessential factor that needs to be tamed down. To underlie the notion of taming down exhibits the need to understand and comprehend the self in its entirety. Indeed, a holistic approach to a much growing self is what we need to be able to perform beyond what is expected of us.  

The reality behind Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP for brevity) lies unto the idea that the world is more than what one could ever expect of. Life itself is beyond the façade; it is more than what one could ever comprehend regarding the basics of life per se.  To deny the self of a holistic understanding simply denotes one’s cognitive ability to a pea. More like non-existent.

NLP invades the self. Indeed, it does. It seeks to empower the self from within thus enabling the growth and nourishment it fully deserves. To acknowledge NLP in the self means you are not afraid to partake in a journey beyond the usual. You gamely allow yourself to openly recognize and accept whatever life may bring forth. Though you are also in the midst of a confusion as to how life really works, still you can verily acknowledge the beauty of life per se. Simply put, NLP helps man prepare himself to one magical journey. As Buzz Lightyear of the famous Toy Story animated movie would gamely quip, “To Infinity and Beyond”.

NLP, as a self-improvement tool, wants to aid the individual realize his greatness. Although deemed a process and composed of methods, it certainly helps maintain the sanity and balance in the self. To say sanity appertains to the ability of one to think logically, reasonably and coherently.

   Thus, the magic of NLP goes beyond the horizon of jealousy and delves in the empowerment of the innate self.  


 
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In a world full of distractions, conquering one’s fear of time is but one tough act to overcome. It takes more than will power and a bottle of energy drink before the light at the end of the tunnel could be seen. In other words, time could never be tamed nor could it ever be fathomed.

The intensity of the presence of time is inevitable. Indeed, time, like air, is a constant factor in life and limited as we are, we are only able to grasp its meaning in parts – never in full. We crave for a thorough understanding of how time works and what it really is. We yearn for its definition in order to tame it but since time immemorial, no particular and concise definition has been given.

The moment we become aware of time and its importance exemplifies the fact that time is but a quintessential requirement in our lives. To warrant the exactness of its meaning, although possible, is but a futile attempt to understand how it truly works. In other words, time, like life per se, could only be seen and felt but could never be understood.

As aforementioned, time operates like life per se wherein the nest and only way to understand it is through the experiences we stumble upon. Time could either encourage or discourage us from further aiming to live the life that we have always wanted. In other words, time is but an important factor in achieving our goals and objectives and further in satisfying our innate self.

With the help of Neuro Linguistic Programming (hereinafter referred to as NLP), it permits the limited human mind to grasp a portion of what time is without having to divulge too much effort into it. To say the least, NLP helps the individual condition his neurological and linguistic abilities in order to pave the way for a much acceptable way of communicating his thoughts and ideas to others. In other words, NLP seeks to ensure that every nanosecond of an individual’s life is worthy of cognition and worthy of remembering. The way NLP works ensures that the individual is duly empowered from within thus allowing him to see beyond time and learn to work with it.  In other words, NLP teaches one to control his urges to go against time and converts such into positive vibes that would help him live his life accordingly.

                                Time, though never on our side, could still be used to our advantage. How?
                                                  With Neuro Linguistic Programming, it is possible.